MESSAGES FROM OUR RABBIS SILVER

Over five centuries ago, the ancestors of Miquel Segura of Mallorca Spain were forcibly converted to Catholicism. His ancestors were persecuted and tortured ever since, and like 10s of thousands of other Jewish converts, many were burned at the stake for secretly practicing Judaism. Such Jews are known as Chuetas, which is derived from the Catalan word for pig, just as Maranno, the Spanish word for pig is used for converted Jews from other parts of Spain. Because of ostracism and forced isolation on the island of Mallorca for centuries, today approximately 20,000 Chuletas trace their roots to Judaism.
In December 2009, Miquel Segura returned to Judaism after over half a millennium of separation from his people. The ceremony was regarded as a “return”, rather than a conversion, since traditional Jews regard Miquel as Jewish due to his ability to trace his ancestry through both parents to Jewish roots. Thus, a bet din was not needed, and only a purification ceremony in the Mikveh was required.
As a Chueta, Miquel Segura’s life was precarious, humiliating and insecure. Now, he can enjoy the true meaning of his name, Segura, which is Spanish for “safe” and “secure”, for he is now safe and secure within the embrace of his people, and free to share in the rich heritage of Judaism. While this horrible wrong was made right for Miquel, today millions of descendants of Spanish Jews who were forced to convert are unaware of their Jewish roots and thus still suffer the wrong of the loss of their precious heritage.
Moreover, such horrors were not confined to 500 years ago. In 1858, Edgardo Mortara, a 6 year old child of Jewish parents in
Accordingly, our synagogue is open to ceremonies of conversion and return, and recently performed such a conversion in Spanish. We also invite the Spanish speaking community to join with us every second Friday night of the month, where a little Spanish is incorporated into our service, and we celebrate the rich Jewish heritage in Hispanic lands. On February 12, the Shabbat service will be enhanced by a visit from celebrated guitarist, Howard Greenblatt, who will demonstrate the similarities between the music of the Sephardic Jews, Spanish gypsies, the Moors, Arabs and the Flamenco musicians with his beautiful and inspiring music. As with all of our activities, everyone is welcome, and we urge you to invite your friends to join us in this exciting Shabbat experience.
April 2009
On April 21, we observe Yom Hashoah, and honor the memory of those who perished in the holocaust. As we do so, let us learn from the heroes of the past to take swift and decisive action today to confront the dangers of our age. Our schools and society train our children to conform. But as the book about Tuvia Bielski instructs, “liberty begins with an act of defiance”. Sometimes this defiance must be directed towards our own leaders who often protect the status quo and their political careers, rather than protecting the people, from grave danger.
Purim
January-March 2009
Tonight our dinner was interrupted by the news of horrific violence in India, not surprisingly carried out by Muslim terrorists. This came as a stark contrast to an interfaith dialogue in which I participated the night before with Muslim, Jewish, Christian and Hindu clergy. The dialogue and fellowship were extremely cordial and a wonderful reminder that we can disagree agreeably. Yet, despite all the interfaith conferences and symposia, we must ask ourselves why religious violence is still so rampant in the world.
While the answer is obvious, due to political correctness it is almost never discussed in the mainstream press, but has been addressed in the movie Religula, and in eloquent books such as "The End of Faith" by Sam Harris and "The God Delusion" by Richard Dawkins. The easiest way to see why some religions foster violence, is to examine what type of god they worship. If people pray to a god who extends heavenly rewards to believers, and indescribable, endless suffering to non-believers, then by killing non-believers, or better still torturing and then killing them, the faithful can carry out "god's will" in this world. It has been said that if we worship an intolerant god, then we will be intolerant. We see a similar pattern with children who emulate the behavior, far more often than the words of their parents. If their god tortures and kills non-believers, then the faithful will do likewise in their effort to live a "godly" life, just as many children strive to be like their parents.
While it is true that many fundamentalists are not violent, it is also true that many Americans do not practice equality, many Jews don't observe the Sabbath, and many people who claim to be vegetarians, sometimes eat chicken or fish. While not all will succumb, those who are intolerant, restless, faithful, angry, and living in a sexually repressed environment, such as those young males who committed the massacre in India, will easily be lured by the promise of many virgins, to satisfy their repressed sexual lust in the afterlife by obeying scriptural commands to slay the non-believer. When we understand the teachings and brainwashing of fundamentalist Islam, slaughters such as we recently saw in India, and the carnage of 9/11 seem surprising, only in the fact that they don't occur more often. While today's terrorists are mostly Muslim, in past ages, fundamentalist Christians killed millions, and fundamentalists of all stripes threaten the planet, not only by spreading conflict, but by opposing family planning which is essential if we are to avert disaster from overpopulation.
How infantile it is to believe that the creator of this vast, incomprehensible universe really cares what we believe. Wouldn't a just god be much more concerned with how we act? And if there was a god who fashioned this incredibly wondrous universe, wouldn't he have to be the master scientist of all, and wouldn't such a god reward scientific inquiry rather than blind faith? Galileo refused to believe that a Creator who endowed us with a powerful mind would punish us for its use.
In order to survive this century, both liberals and conservatives must join forces to combat religious intolerance by fighting political correctness from both ends. Liberals must learn that evil must be confronted, and conservatives must learn that the fight against evil must be done intelligently, not simply by backing the President no matter what. Keeping our nation in the middle of an interminable civil war in a futile effort to bring Democracy to people who don't believe in it, and who hate us, Israel and our allies, saps our strength to fight the real battle against terrorist groups like those who led the attack in India, and deter us from fighting just causes like preventing genocide in Darfur and the Congo. This battle must be waged militarily against terrorist groups, and ideologically against the primitive notion that god sends believers to heaven and non-believers to eternal torment. This naïve belief creates the ideological swamp from which violent extremism emerges.
Chanukah 2008
Sometimes it is good to be in the minority, especially around the holiday season. Christmas has become so commercialized that for many people it is best symbolized by an overweight elf who rides through the sky reinforcing materialism for our children as one of our highest values. Fortunately, Chanukah has not been taken over by the secular world, and still retains much of its original meaning and charm. Nevertheless, many of us still do not observe the essence of the Chanukah season.
If we light candles, sing songs, get together with the family and eat some latkes, we are observing some joyous and meaningful customs associated with the Festival of Lights. Some of our fondest memories revolve around this time of year and this holiday. However, if this is all we do, then we haven’t fully celebrated this joyous occasion. Chanukah is Hebrew for “dedication” and reminds us of the dedication of the Maccabees, as they fought for religious freedom, and struggled to preserve their way of life from the onslaught of the Greek/Syrians. The practice of Judaism is not only threatened by tyrants and enemies, but is threatened more insidiously by benign forces such as assimilation, which also occurred during the period of Hellenistic rule. In our country, no one is physically preventing us from practicing Judaism, but there are many forces that lead us away from our heritage. When we see violence all around us, when we are confronted by apathy towards injustice, when we are flooded with information about the now, and urged to forget about our past, the continuation of Jewish life is threatened, and many will abandon Jewish ways and values. Jews are also directly targeted by radical Islam, which like the Syrian/Greeks, seeks the destruction of Judaism.
If we want to celebrate Chanukah in a meaningful way, then in addition to the fun, family, and food, we must also strive to incorporate the lessons and eternal message of this festival. On Chanukah we learned that a small group of dedicated people can begin a revolution that can change the world; that when our way of life is threatened by enemies or from within, we must resist, and cling to the beautiful heritage that has been handed down to us through the ages. We also learn that for every good cause, we must get involved and repeat the motto of the Maccabees, “Be strong and of good courage.”
I wish everyone a joyous Chanukah, and I hope we will be inspired by the courage of the Maccabees, to fight for justice and a better world, and to let nothing discourage us from rising to the challenge of fulfilling the Jewish people’s historic mission of Tikkun Olam, the repair of the world.
Rosh Hashanah 2008
My father was fond of saying that the miracle of being human is that we have the capacity to change from what we are to what we can become, if we really tried. It is this wonderful ability that makes life exciting, and separates us most dramatically from other life forms, which to various degrees operate largely by instinct, slavishly repeating the mistakes of the past, often learning nothing, year after year.
Each of us starts out from inauspicious beginnings, unable to speak, walk, or care for ourselves. An explosion of growth and improvement soon follows in what can only be described as a miracle. For some, this growth and development continue throughout a lifetime, and they reach great heights in moral, intellectual, and cultural achievement. Alas, for others, the learning and improvement soon come to a grinding halt, resulting in stagnation and lethargy. Martin Luther King once said upon hearing of the death of a violent opponent of civil rights, that his demise merely recorded the cessation of the heart beat of a man who had died long ago.
The Torah reading at this season urges us to Choose Life, reminding us of the important choice we must make. Will we squander our fleeting days going down the same old dreary path, or will we take advantage of the free will that lies within us all? As Reform Jews, our faith does not reside in inprovable dogma, but rather in the verifiable belief that we all possess the capacity to grow in spirituality and moral stature, once we decide to make the effort.
When we fail to make the effort, and remain the same year after year, we say life is boring. Is life boring, or have we become boring because we have lost the capacity to expand our horizons, and become deadened to the world of wonder? Most of us love to be around kids, at least for a while, because they still have the capacity to experience the world with childlike wonder. At any age, we can respond to the world with excitement and awe, if we properly observe these Days of Awe.
The Friday night between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur is called Shabbat Shuvah, the Sabbath of return. But why would we want to return to the past, as we approach a new year? The reason is that we seek to return to a time when our souls were pure and unsullied. Whatever has caused us to veer off course from our pristine path and from the hopes and dreams our parents had for us, can be corrected through effort and sincere desire. This is the task we set for ourselves not only on Rosh Hashanah, but on each Shabbat, and throughout the year.
While real change, as opposed to a slogan, is not easy, the Hebrew name for New Year is instructive in helping us to meet this challenge. Rosh Hashanah is translated as New Year, but the word "Rosh" means "head", and Shanah, which means year, comes from a Hebrew root meaning "change". The Hebrew words "Rosh Hashanah" teach us the essence of Judaism, i.e. that change is possible, if we use our heads and our minds. Thus, 3000 years before both political parties adopted change as their mantra, our people were proclaiming a message of change and hope to the entire world.
In Hebrew, "tov" means "good, so when we wish each other "L'Shanah Tovah" we are not only saying Happy New Year, we are also saying in the literal sense of the words, "may you change for the good". How lucky we are to be part of a heritage that has faith that we can improve, and to live in a country where we have the freedom to tear down barriers that prevent us from fully experiencing the world and each other in its entire splendor. I hope that we, our congregation, our community and the world will use our heads, as well as our hearts and bodies to bring about the change which is needed to improve our lives and the world at this High Holy Day season.
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January 2008
Our congregation was privileged to host Rabbi Michael Lerner at our services on January 18, 2008, when we heard his inspiring message for social change. Thank you to all who came out to hear the Rabbi and to make him feel welcome in our home, and to those who provided the oneg after his presentation. Rabbi Lerner gave us much to consider and presented us with many suggestions for growth in our spirituality and our endeavor to live a meaningful Jewish life. As a result of Rabbi Lerner’s exciting message, many congregants and guests have suggested that we become even more active in bringing about positive change in our community. Towards this end, I invite all of our members and friend to come up with suggestions for helping us as individuals and as a congregation to contribute to Tikkun Olam. As a first step, I suggest we seek alternatives to Styrofoam at all of our events, the placing of recycling bins at our shopping center, (if someone calls “866 new bins” and consults with our landlord, we can perhaps make this happen), the installation of solar heating and lighting at our shopping center (I have contacts for this which I will pursue), and other ways to help our congregation leave less of a carbon footprint.
I further suggest that in keeping with the Governor’s proclamation of January as homeless awareness month in the State of Florida, that we give a call to the Governor and the local officials who are in a position to financially assist Westgate Tabernacle and urge them to direct some of the funds that it receives for organizations that help the homeless to Westgate, which may be forced to close its doors by the end of the month, if it does not receive substantial financial help right away. Right now, the funds received by the state and county go primarily to organizations which talk about helping the homeless, but provide no shelter, and instead send such individuals to Westgate. Rather than provide financial assistance to Westgate, in an extreme demonstration of chutzpah, the County agencies send the homeless to Westgate, and then assess fines and other penalties against Westgate for their sheltering the very people who are sent there by the County. According to an e-mail that was recently sent to one of our members from the Governor’s office, “This office [the Governor’s office] works to coordinate state assistance with the local plans. As such we rely upon the local homeless coalition and county government to assist us. To that end, our key contacts locally are Ms. Shelley Gottsagon, with the coalition (561) 487-5451, and Ms. Georgina Devine, with the County’s Human Services Division (561) 355-4778.”
Let us all contact these individuals and the Governor’s office, and ask our friends to do likewise, and request that if the government is going to spend money helping the homeless, it should send a substantial amount of its funds to Westgate, the only facility in the county that houses the homeless twenty-four hours a day, every day, with no government assistance to date. Not only does Westgate house such individuals, they also provide spiritual and physical nourishment and assistance to the homeless in getting their lives back in order and getting back on their feet once again so they can be restored to a life of dignity and fulfillment. Let’s also come up with other ways to make Tikkun Olam (the repair of the world) a top priority at Congregation L’Dor Va-Dor, in order to make our Judaism come alive, and give meaning to our lives and the lives of all humanity.
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Passover 2008
On Passover we are reminded to observe the weeklong holiday as if we had been enslaved in Egypt, and then delivered with a mighty hand from bondage. We do more than observe this sacred day; we try to relive the experience of liberation through the use of prayers, stories, games, songs, rituals, and special symbols. All of these features of the Passover Seder are designed to help us experience the exodus as if we were there. Ideally, we are surrounded by friends and family to add to the joy of the celebration.
But is Pesach still relevant when we already live in the land of the free? Yes, even in America, we can still derive so much from Pesach if properly observed. But how is it possible to experience the Seder as if we were slaves in the land of Egypt? The secret is to use the festival to spiritually internalize the revolutionary message of Passover, just as we physically internalize the Passover foods. In this way we begin to fully appreciate our freedom and experience the joy of charting our own destiny, rather than being carried whichever way the wind blows.
If we are addicted to nicotine, alcohol, excessive food, TV, procrastination, or countless other vices, we are not truly free. What a great occasion it would be if we looked inside ourselves and picked just one area where we enslave ourselves, and vowed to do our best to rid ourselves of this addiction.
A slave is often separated from family members involuntarily. Do we who are fortunate enough to have friends and family in our lives, take the time to share ourselves with our parents, children and relatives and appreciate how lucky we are to have them in our lives, or do separate ourselves from them either physically or emotionally? Why not use this opportunity to really connect with our families, and break down barriers, and maximize the time we have together?
Are we enslaved by self-imposed limitations in which we tell ourselves that we cannot change, and thus condemn ourselves to just going through the motions of life instead of really living and enjoying all that life has to offer each day? Do we maximize our potential to try new things and expand our horizons? If we go through life doing the same thing every day, and getting stuck in stale patterns of behavior, we are not acting like free people, and certainly not living as if we have just been freed from bondage.
As Moses was not afraid to stand up to Pharaoh, we too should not be afraid to stand up to those forces that continue to keep us down. And as Moses was willing to risk his life to save a Hebrew slave, so may we experience the joy of helping others. As a Jewish community may we strive to keep our planet free from environmental catastrophe, help the people of Darfur become free from continued brutality, the people of the world free from religious fanaticism and may we become free to one day be able to say “Next year in Jerusalem” without any fear of violence in the Jewish homeland and in Jerusalem, the City of Peace.
THE SILVER LINING…By: Rabbi Samuel Silver
What the bible is telling us...
Listen, my children, attention please pay
While I remind you of what the bible has to say
The Bible contains stories and many a blessing
but one major point it is always stressing
That God tells us to be nice is, of course. essential
but we can be still nicer if we draw on our potential
So bear in mind what God has given you and me
It can be summarized in one word, that is, improvability
Every Biblical hero, every word and letter
Declares that if we try we can do morally better
We are indeed fortunate to be recipients of that gift
The capacity to improve and achieve an upward lift
Yes, we are capable of moral elevation
But, alas, we are also capable of moral deterioration
so study the heroes who in the Bible can inspire
And use your free will to move ethically higher
That, dear children, is the message of Holy Writ
God gives us the potential:
Let's make good use of it
Let us be worthy of Devine favor
Performing good deeds which the Lord will savor
A Coinage… By: Rabbi Samuel Silver
I have created a new term for our Congregation.
My coinage is ‘RECONFORMADOX.’
It has a touch of Orthodoxy; and we must admire the fervor of the Traditionalist Jews. We all should emulate their devotion.
It has a tinge of Conservatism. The Conservative Movement has included many brilliant preachers who inspire all of us.
It also suggests Reconstructionism, a Movement which was started by the
Late Rabbi Mordecai Kaplain.
As for Reform Judaism, it has stressed the fact that Judaism is not stagnant.
It stresses the evolutionary
process in the history of our beloved Faith.
My coinage also implies something
important for all Jews...we should
not advocate the differences among people.
Maturity calls not for the elimination of differences, but rather for
RESPECT for differences.
HOW DO YOU LIKE MY COINAGE?